Love/Hate Missionary Updates

I love reading missionary updates. Really, I do. I always have. But lately, after the sharing in the joy I often get a sinking feeling in my stomach. All I can think to myself now when I read these updates is, “There’s no way I can do that,” or “I’m not like that person (e.g. winsome, likable, etc…”

When I thought of missions before (say, more than a year ago), it was always in some kind of removed, far-off way. Sure, I felt some of the same inadequacies then, but I thought I’d grow (and maybe be less inadequate…or is it “more adequate?”). It’s kind of like when I was in high school and enlisted in the Navy. I had moments of fear, but it was far off. I joined under the Delayed Entry Program and had 10 months before I had to report for boot camp. But as that day to report drew near, I got that same sinking feeling in my stomach that I get now when I read missionary updates like the one I read this morning. A friend of mine, serving in a country in Asia, talked about a new believer who he’d been working with over 3 years. It’s cool to read, as a sender. But when I think of myself as a goer – whoa! It kinda freaks me out. 3 years!?

I know we’ll probably have similar experiences. Where we’re going is going to be a “slow row to hoe,” much like the Asian country where my friend is at. And that seems daunting at times. Then again, learning a language seems even more overwhelming – and that has to take place before the 3 years of sharing my faith. Whew! Now you know how to pray.

Kitchen Stuff

It’s nights like tonight, while fixing dinner, that I think things like, “I’m going to miss this stuff.” Yeah, it’s just stuff. It shouldn’t be a big deal. But it does seem to be the simple things that cause me to struggle. It’s not like we won’t have knives and cutting boards, or measuring cups and mixers. But I like ours. And I struggle when I see family or get a cup of coffee or run into friends at the grocery store. I will miss these things. I’m okay with that. I’m okay giving them up. But I can’t say I’ll like it.

Vision Trip

Well, I stink at blogging. It’s been a month since I last posted something. One of my excuses is that I was gone for 2 weeks. Does that count?

Earlier this month I led a small vision trip to the country where we’re headed. It went really well and was truly a joy to get to know these folks as well as share the ministry with them. We got to interact with dozens of believers in the land and hear from several ministry leaders with which we partner with. By the end of the trip it seemed pretty clear that the participants had their perspectives broadened and had gained clearer insight into the complexities in the land and the needs there.

On a personal level, it was beneficial as well. I listened with a different set of ears and saw things with different eyes. The one thing that certainly became clearer is that there is indeed a need for us to be there. And it seems like there will be warmth receiving us from the nationals.

Hope everyone had a Happy Thanksgiving!